7 Life Lessons From Pop Culture’s Most Popular Pessimists

Perhaps life isn’t so bad through a glass half empty.

Despite what we’ve been told about looking on the bright side, there’s also some solid science behind pessimism, too. Research suggests that it may help us live longer, help with anxiety and even boost our productivity levels .




In reality, it’s all about balance. Negative thinking isn’t so great for our well-being either and feeling happy is way more ideal than feeling sad. But we’re also here to be realistic: sometimes that’s easier said than done. And no one knows that better than these beloved pessimistic cartoon characters.

Check out some of our favorite (and sometimes even encouraging) quotes and life lessons we gleaned from the childhood sad sacks icons below. 

Eeyore, The ‘Realistic’ Optimist

Even though he’s one of the most notoriously pessimistic cartoon characters, the beloved donkey from A. A. Milne’s Winnie the Pooh still can bring a few laughs every so often. Case in point, this gloomy, yet still slightly optimistic quote below: 

“It’s snowing still,” said Eeyore gloomily.
“So it is.”
“And freezing.”
“Is it?”
“Yes,” said Eeyore. “However,” he said, brightening up a little, “we haven’t had an earthquake lately.” 


That’s what we like to call realistic optimism, which combines the positive mindset of optimists with a more rational outlook of pessimists. Studies show these types of people may be the happiest, as they have the best of both worlds when it comes to their perception.


Charlie Brown, The ‘Defensive’ Pessimist

Charlie Brown may have rotten luck (and an even more rotten Christmas tree), but he still has a few positive pieces of wisdom we can learn from. Take this slightly insightful twist on pessimism Charlie imparts on his best friend, Linus Van Pelt. Life can certainly be tough, but it’s so much easier when we take it day by day.

“Life is difficult, isn’t it, Charlie Brown?”
“Yes, it is, but I’ve developed a new philosophy. I only dread one day at a time.”

 

Defensive pessimism (in other words, preparing for the worst even though rationally we know the worst won’t happen) could be a useful tool for managing anxiety, according to Wellesley College researchers.

Oscar The Grouch, The ‘Understanding’ Pessimist

Oscar is quite possibly one of the grumpiest characters in pop culture, yet even he can teach us a thing or two about accepting a bad situation. Take, for example, this conversation he had with Big Bird during a particularly bad snow storm on Sesame Street:

“I love this crummy weather. Gotta chill this hot chocolate down so it tastes good and yucky.”
“Hi, Oscar.”
“Hey, what’s the matter, Big Bird? It’s a great storm. You ought to be happy.”
 

Oscar understands the snow isn’t ideal and he’s happy (or, at the very least, himself) despite it. A realistic view of an inevitable circumstance? Not a bad way to weather a storm.

Grumpy, The ‘Reluctant’ Optimist

Grumpy the dwarf was all about the doom and gloom — and wanted nothing to do with Snow White when she first arrived to their cottage. Life lesson here? It doesn’t matter if you’re the world’s most negative person, there’s always a little positivity to be found through friendship (research even shows our loved ones reduce our stress).

Garfield, The ‘Accidental’ Optimist

Aside from appreciating a good nap (and as we know, there are great health benefits to that), Garfield can teach us a thing or two about how pessimism accidentally breeds a little optimism in one simple quote:

“Eat every meal as though it were your last.”

Living in the present moment is actually great for your well-being, so even though thinking of something as your “last” can come off as slightly negative, there’s at least a little positive that comes out of it.

 

Daria Morgendorffer, The ‘Motivation-Aware’ Pessimist

Daria, the queen of ’90s sarcasm, is known for dropping some real truth bombs about life and the people in it. Granted, they’re not usually positive, but there’s some wisdom to gain from some of her clear-eyed view of motivation. She comes off strategically as someone who thinks a lot about what it would take to achieve a goal and weighs her desire vs. the energy it takes to get her there.

The first step of going for what you want is realizing what you need to do to get there. Fall seven times, stand up eight — right?

The Grinch, The ‘Recovering’ Pessimist

His heart may be three sizes too small for the majority of his story, but he comes around in the end (and isn’t that what matters, anyway?). Proof that even the grouchiest thinkers can benefit from a departure from negativity.

Did we miss any beloved pessimists? Let us know in the comments below. 

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